Humor is one of the greatest assets a person can have.Working on building your sense of humor will help you out a lot in life,including in being able to defuse difficult situations and in reducing your stress levels.
STEPS
1.Know what of people find funny.Not everyone finds everything funny,but there are lots of general topics that are funnyMake a list of topics that appeal broadly in a humourous way and explore these further...
2.laugh,try laughing when other people do.get into the habit.Natural laughing may then come to you and will be an automatic reaction when something funny occurs.
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Monday 18 June 2012
Friday 15 June 2012
HOW TO HAVE FUN WITH LIFE.
Your approach to life tells a lot about what you and another person is going through.If you are depressed,you may be thinking thought about ending your miserable and boring life,but life is tasteless through this perspective.If you think positive and always smile,your quality of life will improve.Think of what makes you laugh and push negative thoughts out of your brain....
2.See the funny and humorous part of life.if you're depressed,think of a funny idea or a story like an elephant sneezing and scaring itself.
3.Find your passion.Discover your hobbies or talent to make yourself feel happy and distract from depressing thoughts;e.g dancing,singing,or drawing.
4.Socialise.make new friends or talk to the old ones.spend time wit
5.Count your blessings.Try making a list of what makes you happy in life,or make a bucket list and achieve goals on it.if you still sad,think of people who have worst problems than you.
6.Pray.Turn to your religion to help you go through hard times in life.if you still feel depressed or have suicidal thoughts,FIND A NEARBY COUNSELLOR.....
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steps
1.Think positive and smile.remember that life is fun and notice the little that makes life what it is-a cloud shaped like a dog;a young child playing in her yard.Smile everyday and spend time with who you love..wink2.See the funny and humorous part of life.if you're depressed,think of a funny idea or a story like an elephant sneezing and scaring itself.
3.Find your passion.Discover your hobbies or talent to make yourself feel happy and distract from depressing thoughts;e.g dancing,singing,or drawing.
4.Socialise.make new friends or talk to the old ones.spend time wit
5.Count your blessings.Try making a list of what makes you happy in life,or make a bucket list and achieve goals on it.if you still sad,think of people who have worst problems than you.
6.Pray.Turn to your religion to help you go through hard times in life.if you still feel depressed or have suicidal thoughts,FIND A NEARBY COUNSELLOR.....
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SEIZE THAT DAY...
Around d corner i have a friend,in this great las gidi dat has no end.
Yet d day goes by and weeks rush on,
And b4 i know a year is gone,and never to see and old friend again .you know i like u just as well,as in d days i rang your bell and ur rang mine,but we Were younger den!
NOW we are busy people,tired of playing a foolish game,tried of trying to make a name....
2mrw i say,i wuld call on you,but tomorrow comes and goes!
Around d corner yet miles away!
Remember to say what u mean!
If u love some1 tel d person,dont b afraid 2 express it..
Reach out and tel d person what they mean to u because when u decide might b 2 late!
SEIZE DAT DAY!neva v regrets and most importantly stay close 2 Ur friends,GOD and family cos they helped to make d person u r 2day..
Yet d day goes by and weeks rush on,
And b4 i know a year is gone,and never to see and old friend again .you know i like u just as well,as in d days i rang your bell and ur rang mine,but we Were younger den!
NOW we are busy people,tired of playing a foolish game,tried of trying to make a name....
2mrw i say,i wuld call on you,but tomorrow comes and goes!
Around d corner yet miles away!
Remember to say what u mean!
If u love some1 tel d person,dont b afraid 2 express it..
Reach out and tel d person what they mean to u because when u decide might b 2 late!
SEIZE DAT DAY!neva v regrets and most importantly stay close 2 Ur friends,GOD and family cos they helped to make d person u r 2day..
YOUR ATTTITUDE.
Your attitude either makes u or ruin u!
Wat is attitude?
How do u relate with people especially wen they could b very annoying that u even feel like choping off their heads..hmm...dnt mind me jare!
Ur attitude is a mirror
Its d vangard of your true self
It is ur best friend or Ur worth enemy
Its d speaker of Ur present
A prophet of Ur future,
Its what people do to u or irritates them
There is not a single part of your current life dat is nt affected by ur attitude!
OUR ATTITUDE MATTERS A LOT.
Wat is attitude?
How do u relate with people especially wen they could b very annoying that u even feel like choping off their heads..hmm...dnt mind me jare!
Ur attitude is a mirror
Its d vangard of your true self
It is ur best friend or Ur worth enemy
Its d speaker of Ur present
A prophet of Ur future,
Its what people do to u or irritates them
There is not a single part of your current life dat is nt affected by ur attitude!
OUR ATTITUDE MATTERS A LOT.
THE POWER OF THE MIND
Your views of yourself would b greatly influence how others perceive you.If u r a confident,cheerful,positive person,friends and family would b attractd 2 ur personality.if u r un-happy and always complaining bout ur situation,others wuld b repelled.even wen at times u dnt feel happy,by fencing urself in a positive fashion,u would find out dat u wuld soon feel Genuinely upbeat cos ur subconcious doesn't know d difference between artificial emotion and d real thing.when u behave positively u wuld possibly influence everyone around u including urself.u can't control other pple's actions but u can control ur reaction to their actions.and dat is wat count most on U.no 1 can make u feel any negative emotion_e.g fear,anger or inferiority without ur xpress permission.when u r forced 2 deal wif such people,recognise from d outset that they are tryn 2 UPSET U,not cos of somefin u v done 2 dem,buh its bcos of some troubles they v within themselves.tell urself,"THIS Isn't BOuT ME"I will nt let dis person upset me cos am in control of my emotions and my life.♥♥♥
BEGIN AGAIN....
Let us cast aside the hurts,that rankle in our hearts.
Lets try to mend old quarrels.4giving the old grudges,and bitter words once said.
Decide 2 fil our life wif Love.And happiness instead
Harbouring resentment only disturb our peace of mind,
We find our views distored.unloving and unkind.
4giveness is the gentle balm,
That comes like fresh rain...
Blessing all withn its reach
When we begin again!
Wednesday 13 June 2012
The Element of Success
This is the beginning of exploring with you-perhaps for the first time-the first of the seven fears of man.Since they are all common to all men and women,its not good enough to just list them here.The revelation are so powerful to know this first one is enough to make a difference if you dare.
The first of these incapacitating fear is the fear of poverty.Fear is the most debilitating of the six basis fears of man.
As the lead fear,there is no more compromise between poverty and riches.(in the broadest sense)the two road travel in the opposite directions.If you want riches,health etc....you must renounce poverty even the spirit....
The starting point on the path of success is 'DESIRE'whatever you accept in your life,if you accept poverty or riches,you will get .Your desire is the one decision that affects your success or failure.Its what keeps the path of failure reoccurring,and the potential success from occurring.Which way are you looking at in your life?
Once you make a decision the universe conspires to make it happen.
The road to riches doesn't begin unless you start,neglect the plan,or stop before you get there.You alone is to blame,but the responsibility is yours to ask for what you want it by.
No one is to blame ,but the responsibility is yours to ask for what you want,or accept the paucity of riches.If you fail to act,or refuse to show to the game of life,it's your state of mind.A state of mind is something that you assume.It cannot be purchased,it must be created.
This fear paralyses the faculty of reason,dulls imagination,leads to uncertainty of purpose,and diverts concentration of focus.
The fear of poverty is,in my view,the most destructive of the six basic fears.
Poverty brings man so much suffering and humility.Only those who have experienced poverty understand it's impact on the spirit.
It's unfortunate to admit,but some men cannot be trusted and would prey upon others.
What's in the truck?
Self analysis may revel an affinity for fear.If you experience any of these symptoms,you may be experiencing the pull of this fear.
Money isn't just coins or papers,but its also the TREASURE of the heart and soul which cannot be bought.When we are down,even when unemployed or on hard times,we may forget our good fortune and feel trapped by circumstances of life.The uncertainty brings about a lack of power of earned money to revive man's spirits.
When a man is down and out,he has time on his hands for brooding.Maybe he's getting turned down for a job,everyday and he's living on the remnants of his last paycheck.His clothes are still fresh from his last job,but the clothes cannot disguise a man's droop.
From a reflection in the store window,he sees others busy at work,envious of their good fortune..They have their independence,their self respect,but he can't convince himself that he is a good man too,though he argues it out,in his favourable conclusion hour after hour. Its just the money that makes him different from him.With a Little money,he would be himself again..............!
The first of these incapacitating fear is the fear of poverty.Fear is the most debilitating of the six basis fears of man.
As the lead fear,there is no more compromise between poverty and riches.(in the broadest sense)the two road travel in the opposite directions.If you want riches,health etc....you must renounce poverty even the spirit....
The starting point on the path of success is 'DESIRE'whatever you accept in your life,if you accept poverty or riches,you will get .Your desire is the one decision that affects your success or failure.Its what keeps the path of failure reoccurring,and the potential success from occurring.Which way are you looking at in your life?
Once you make a decision the universe conspires to make it happen.
The road to riches doesn't begin unless you start,neglect the plan,or stop before you get there.You alone is to blame,but the responsibility is yours to ask for what you want it by.
No one is to blame ,but the responsibility is yours to ask for what you want,or accept the paucity of riches.If you fail to act,or refuse to show to the game of life,it's your state of mind.A state of mind is something that you assume.It cannot be purchased,it must be created.
This fear paralyses the faculty of reason,dulls imagination,leads to uncertainty of purpose,and diverts concentration of focus.
The fear of poverty is,in my view,the most destructive of the six basic fears.
Poverty brings man so much suffering and humility.Only those who have experienced poverty understand it's impact on the spirit.
It's unfortunate to admit,but some men cannot be trusted and would prey upon others.
What's in the truck?
Self analysis may revel an affinity for fear.If you experience any of these symptoms,you may be experiencing the pull of this fear.
- Doubt
- Worry
- Procrastination
- Indifference
- Procrastination
Money isn't just coins or papers,but its also the TREASURE of the heart and soul which cannot be bought.When we are down,even when unemployed or on hard times,we may forget our good fortune and feel trapped by circumstances of life.The uncertainty brings about a lack of power of earned money to revive man's spirits.
When a man is down and out,he has time on his hands for brooding.Maybe he's getting turned down for a job,everyday and he's living on the remnants of his last paycheck.His clothes are still fresh from his last job,but the clothes cannot disguise a man's droop.
From a reflection in the store window,he sees others busy at work,envious of their good fortune..They have their independence,their self respect,but he can't convince himself that he is a good man too,though he argues it out,in his favourable conclusion hour after hour. Its just the money that makes him different from him.With a Little money,he would be himself again..............!
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